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Sweetness and Light, the depths of Joy at Beltane

Beltane is Samhain’s opposite festival, where Samhain opens up the veils to allow the dead to rise and the darkness to descend, Beltane opens up the veils and allows the fey to rise and the light to ascend.

Beltane seems to be the one festival out of the eight on the wheel of the year that I easily miss or discount, at the beginning of May I am either processing the spring anxiety that can come and grab me, or I am just out and enjoying the changing weather and not truly aware of the shifting of the wheel.

The depth involved in Beltane has often alluded me just as the Taurean mysteries often do. Being a Scorpio Sun with a Taurus Moon, understanding both sides of these opposing energies is an important life lesson of mine. Since the dawning of my awareness of astrology and my personal astrological make-up, Scorpio has been the sign that I identified the easiest with, being my soul energy sign and such an intense one it is easy to understand why this would be, Taurus has easily been left as a secondary energy, one that I placed after Scorpio.

I get the depths in mystery, darkness, the underworld, my shadow, my unconscious, dreams and swirling oceans that never end which Scorpio and Samhian encompass. The depths of joy, merriment, romance, love, blossoming, celebration and light magic that Taurus and Beltane encompass have seemed a little too ‘nice’, too ‘sweet’ for such a heavy and intense person as I.

However, as my Goddess path unfolded before me I began to weary of having struggles and challenges be my catalyst for growth and transformation, I began to wonder if joy couldn’t be a touchstone for spiritual growth, I wanted joy to be my new touchstone for growth, I wanted to be so joyful that I was compelled to open even wider, to raise up in vibration even higher, if challenges could be a touchstone for spiritual growth, surely blessings actualized could be as well, couldn’t they?

That idea was my first inkling of what kinds of depths this Beltane day could offer me. The closest I have come to experiencing what I believe the essence of this day holds for us all is when I fell in love with my husband. I always expected falling in love to be a passionate, all encompassing, drink each other’s blood kind of obsessive merging for me. While we never drank each other’s blood, there definitely was that passion and obsession that I had imagined I would experience when I fell in love, but there was also sweetness, lightness, innocence and playfulness, aspects of myself that I hadn’t known since I was too young to remember clearly. Not only could I barely remember those aspects of myself, they were aspects that I had shut down at an early age, aspects that had made me feel vulnerable and unsafe in what was a cruel reality that I first arrived in. When I sat down on my first date with my husband, he and I had a moment where our eyes locked and no words came, we just held each other’s gaze and I felt the air element as my heart chakra burst open wide, in that moment I realized that I had never felt someone open my heart before, all of my previous romantic encounters had been of the second chakra variety. With my heart opening came an instant return to innocence and my husband and I enjoyed a good three years of the ‘honeymoon’ phase, sweetness and light filled our lives and sweetness and light is what I believe Beltane calls up and brings back to Earth each time the Wheel of the Year returns to the first of May.

I have felt far from sweetness and light as of yet, in fact I have felt very dark and heavy, dark and heavy in the way that I did before entering my conscious path. It did not feel like my natural state anymore, yet I could not find my way above water. After a year long pregnancy (one miscarriage followed by another pregnancy) fraught with complications, a traumatic birth, a newborn in the NICU for a week and then what felt like a crushing case of Postpartum Anxiety and a potentially colicky newborn all of the lights seemed to be going out for me. Like the Swamp of Sorrows from the Neverending Story I began to really sink into dread, remorse and hopelessness. I got lost in the past, how joyful I once was, how in love I once was, how free I once was, how much fun my first born and I once had, and down I went.

Finally I got serious about getting out of the swamp. I took the practical steps needed, visited a homeopath, reached out to my women and shared where I was at, called on my spiritual guides, told the doctor, started taking my vitamins and probiotics, started eating very healthy. I also did everything I could to support my emotional, mental and spiritual health. I prayed, meditated, did breath transmutation work, and became diligent about being in the now. I began to feel some relief and then this past week I started to pray that the Holy Spirit would enter my hormones and started to notice a huge shift, these were all hopeful steps in the right direction for me.

Suddenly this morning I woke up, the first one awake in the house, my baby was asleep beside me, my husband and three year old were cuddling asleep in the other room and I scanned my body to find that not only was there no anxiety or dread, there was energy and joy. I breathed it in, afraid to even admit it to myself at first, energy and joy was the last of a tiny list of intentions that I had written for myself during a surrender exercise I had read in the book Letting Go, the Pathway to Surrender, and here I was on Beltane morning waking up with energy and joy.

As I enjoyed a rain day with my husband home from work, snuggled my sleeping newborn throughout the day, took a nature walk and marvelled at the lushness that is life at this time of year with my three year old and celebrated the birth of my ever warm and loving Beltane birthday Mother I knew in a way I have never known before that there is depth in joy, there is necessity in joy, there is wisdom in joy, as deep and profound as any darkness I have surrendered to in my life.

I spent years as a young woman negating the light aspects of life, viewing it as frivolous and lacking in true meaning or purpose, I was scared of the light, unbeknownst to me I wasn’t strong enough to be open and vulnerable in the sweetness and light of life.

Thanks to the Creator for leading me to this path, the many years I have followed the Wheel of the Year has opened me up to the vibrational changes that happen as the wheel turns and Beltane caught me right at the perfect moment, when I was open and raw and desperate for sweetness and light to re-enter my experience.

Today is a new beginning for me, I am celebrating all of the life that has bloomed in my life, my house overflows with young, budding, innocence, two beautiful Maidens at home. New love is flourishing as my husband and I reconnect to our dreams and share our mutual dreams of the future with each other.

Today, on Beltane, I am reminded that an intention of joy serves not only me, but the entire world, I see that on the smiles that are reflected back to me when my three year old sees me light up rather than tense up, I see it in the relaxed muscles of my husband’s face as my daughter and I shout “thank you Mother Nature” out the window, thanking her for sending rain so that we can spend the day with him, rather than nag at him about the money we aren’t making that day. I feel it in the ease with which my newborn curls up in my arms and sleeps for hours on end as she goes through her growth spurt.

Beltane may be the most personally profound of days for me on the Wheel of the Year now, sweetness and light, energy and joy, my newest life intentions, intentions that I plan to see reflected back to me in a sweet and light new world as we continue to evolve as a community of souls. Beltane may just be exactly what our world needs now, it’s definitely what my world needed today.

To each and every one of you,

Merriest of Beltane’s Ever!

Grace Be With You,
Priestess of Grace,
Candise Soaring Butterfly
artist: Josephine Wall

Stillness and Peace within the dark of the Solstice

What a light Winter Solstice this has been for me so far. On the shortest day of the year and the darkest night of the year I feel light of spirit, present and full of gratitude. For this dark and broody Scorpio with an often security obsessed Taurus moon, feeling light, present and full of gratitude is not just a platitude to glibly throw around during this festive season. For me, these experiences are a complete transmutation from the state that I have come to identify as self into this new experience of self.

While my ancestors feared the length of the dark and the chill of the cold that this season brought, I feel supported and safe within the walls of our cozy home and surrounded by the vast whiteness that covers our ground. My husband is home for the season and rather than worry about finances like I did all of the previous Winter season, I am soaking up this family time, extra support and slowing down of the year.

This solstice, I’ve been reflecting on how our ancestors faced the fear of the dark, for them this was not a purely metaphoric or symbolic day, it was a very real threat to their livelihood the lack of light and warmth, and when faced with the threat of physical extinction or harm from the elements of this season they created ceremonies, rituals, festivals and reasons to celebrate and gather. They came together, they celebrated the light before it had actually returned, they prayed and danced and lived as if they had all that they desired.

How different our society is today, we are blessed with comforts in the first world countries and yet we are often so isolated, separate and alone in our pain. What would it be like if my instinctual reaction to fear was to gather closer to my community, if I could dance and celebrate the arrival of what I needed before it’s manifested appearance showed forth? What would it be like to be so in the moment that I celebrated life in the lack of the certainty of light, within the dark of the mystery and just revelled in the blessings of what was in that very moment.

It’s so easy to isolate but also to disassociate, there’s Netflix, white sugar, alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, downy beds, iPhones, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Snapchat for the more social media hip than me, dating sites, online games and on and on the list goes, a virtual overload of ways to get lost in cyber land, chemically induced states of joy or relaxation, flat screened images of people’s best face on a menu ready to be ordered up, there’s more than enough resources to numb our pain at any given moment. We don’t need to feel and we don’t need one another, or so the great illusion tells us, it is so much ‘easier’ in the moment to just get lost in the matrix of distraction.

I don’t know how or why I feel so much more present lately than I have before, whenever a new state dawns on me I assume it’s a tipping point, some bit of work I’ve been walking towards internally for days, weeks, months or years has finally accumulated enough of a vibrational punch to shift me into a new reality. I am experiencing the blessings of presence that I have read so much about and I don’t desire to escape my life, my ups and my downs, I want to be with it all. I don’t feel the need to do any great and sweeping social media cleanse, I just feel more of a pull towards others, towards life that I can touch and feel rather than witness from behind a screen. The temptation to be lost in a realm of distraction has lessened and I suspect it is because life is feeling better than fantasy. While I still process a lot in a solitary way, this doesn’t feel synonymous with isolation to me, Capricorn has come to guide us into the Winter season and Capricorn is the prefect example of a solitary creature that is forever linked to their tribe.

Capricorn, which happens to rule my Feminine self, processes much internally in a solo way, and yet is the matriarch of their community, impelled to gather, share and to guide, she is a perfect example of grounded, thoughtful, connected ancestral presence. Capricorn reminds us to listen and follow the examples of our ancestors and focuses us on how we can give to the next seven generations.

For tonight my focus is on how I can give to the next seven generations in my lineage by being a fully present and participatory member of joy and peace within my family unit. When we moved back to this tiny town a year and a half ago I was hoping for community, slowly that has been building for me here. I have found our first spiritual centre in the area and have been teaching and offering readings, this is the other community that I am committed to offering my presence and joy to, my spiritual tribe, the people of my land, each act of service creates a ripple that extends into the far reaches of our cosmos and I get to be a part of that, what a blessing. Of course I will continue to be mindful of how I affect society as a whole, my two places of intention and focus for this next season will be within my family unit and my spiritual community and I trust that as I flourish in these area’s my presence will be a part of blessing the world around me.

I am closing out this year, and entering into the stillness of the Winter season with the intention to honour the impact of my presence on Earth, in what I say, what I do and how I be in this world, I am committed to not minimizing the importance of my presence here at this time and to also not inflating my ego’s need to create large and splashing expressions in order to feel validated about my importance in the world. I don’t need to fly in as super woman and save any one or lead any cause, I do however need to live from the integrity of my open heart, to offer my joy and my attention and to be mindful of how my vibration has the ability to uplift or to contribute to the density of the third dimensional reality, and that is enough for me. Knowing that I can influence the cosmos by uplifting is enough for this Priestess to feel content settling in for a long hibernation, a still season of self-growth, rejuvenation, enjoyment, peace and surrender.

I hope that each one of you too, find a blessing within the darkness of the Great Mother on tonight’s long journey into the mystery and I hope that this blessing is enough to carry you through the quiet of the Winter months with a sense of peace, groundedness and confidence in your purpose and place here on Mother Gaia. May we all be uplifters and may we all fall into the joy of the present moment, whether it be one that appears dark and cold or full of warmth and light, for as we learn on this transitional day, all appearances shift and change, while what is real and true remains steady and true despite the seasons of our life.

Grace Be With You,
Priestess of Grace,
Candise Soaring Butterfly

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Today on Priestess of Grace’s Facebook Page: The Wheel of the Year, Winter Solstice

Suddenly, freedom.

The rainbow broke through the clouds of her mind, it was an illuminating ray of effervescent light, all of the lights combined and the rainbow became a beam of white hot light. The light opened up her mind, her heart, her womb, her third eye, her entire world was titled on the axis of all that she had known in that one illuminating moment.

Years of prayers, meditations, savasana’s, asana’s, listening at the feet of gurus, workshops participated in, tears shed, dark nights of the soul, whole food eating, transformative breath work sessions, therapy, counselling, tantra, years of seeking and digging deeply past the cemented conditioning of the third dimensional reality that she had been grounded down into bursted and she was free.

Free.

Years and years of seeking and yearning.

A rainbow.

A beam of white light.

And finally she was free.
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Today on Priestess of Grace’s Facebook Page: Seasonal Mysteries,

Winter Solstice Illumination

By now if you’ve been reading any parts of my blog you will not be surprised to hear that the Winter Solstice is a very, very comfortable energy to me.

All things dark, wet, cozy, mysterious, magical and otherworldly call to me, a 24 hours that is cloaked with more darkness than any other day of the year serves me just fine.

The timing of this year’s solstice is throwing me off though, where I am it becomes the Winter Solstice at 11:59pm, one minute before the 22, for all intents and purposes we will be having our ceremony tomorrow. Yet this sense of the solstice being split into two days makes my Virgo Mars wonder, when is the best time for our ceremony and celebration.

Today is my wedding anniversary, we had our ceremony in Mexico on Dec 21, 2012, the Winter Solstice, and the day that the world was supposed to end. We believed that the end of the world was a symbolic energetic shift from the ways of the old into the ways of the new, higher consciousness rising up, and soaked up the energetic matrix that we were blessed to be incarnated into through committing to an eternity together.

Celebrating tomorrow means that today can be all about our love.

I have a lot of plans that I am inspired about for tomorrow. In the evening our second ever Goddess Gathering in the small town that we are now living in will be held in the temple in our new home. Last month’s gathering was moving beyond words and really gave me hope that the work that I offer might have a place to land here, sitting in circle with women shapes my soul.

Tonight’s ceremony will focus on our womb space, the space within us that makes us the Grand Receiver as women. Our great void, as the darkest night of the year envelops us we will travel into the dark mystery of our womb cauldrons, creating mandala’s and burning away what we want to release with the burning of our Yule log.

The dark of this year calls to my own mystery, it reminds me of my soul, the part of me that is ages old and has walked this earth for eons. I am my own ancestor when I dive deeply within my consciousness. In this lifetime I also have access to my ancestral lineage, and that is also what we will connect to tonight, the message that lies within our wombs, our ancestors wisdom and lessons to pass on down.

What I feel calling to me is the subject of epigenetic’s, the ability to raise my own dna up and to be free of ancestral conditioning within my blood, I am drawn to deep soul surrender to the Goddess and to a commitment to love unconditionally <<<< (I hate typing that, it sounds so cliched and so overdone to me when I read it.)

A great spiritual teacher once wrote that all truth is intellectual and fairly ineffectual beyond it’s ability to inspire us to go within until it is revealed from within. This past year has been revealing to me all of my unloving responses to life, suddenly responding with unconditional love doesn’t sound trite and cliched, it feels profound and magical beyond measure.

Epigenetic’s, unconditioning, my magic womb cauldron, unconditional love and deep surrender are the essences that I am bringing with me into ceremony tonight, they are my intentions and the blanket that I wish to wrap myself in as I sink into the dark cave of hibernation for this upcoming winter season.

Hibernation is a time for us to be renewed, for seeds to germinate deep within the pit of our wombs and our consciousness, it is the earthen womb of the Mother Goddess that welcomes us back into Her perfect presence to be reborn in the spring.

What will you bring with you into hibernation this winter? How will you welcome back the light and the heat of the sun? The light that returns gives us an illuminated view of the year that has passed. I began last year with a strong focus on trust, it is what I meditated on and prayed on, I wanted a revelation and a settled sense of trust within. I wanted to trust the Goddess and to trust the laws of grace. As I focused on trust the fruits that were revealed are the seeds that I am setting as my intention tonight, epigenetic’s, unconditioning, the magic and power of my womb, unconditional love and surrender are the keys to my sense of trust, they are what taps me into alignment with Source and reveals the truth of grace to me.

What is the sun revealing to you?

I welcome comments on my blog, please share your personal Winter Solstice revelations to me or any inspirational experiences that you have.

I wish you a magical and grounded Winter Solstice and a season of warmth, love and comfort.

Grace Be With You,
Priestess of Grace,
Candise Soaring Butterfly

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Today on Priestess of Grace’s Facebook Page: The Wheel of the Year, the Summer Solstice

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